BDSM = GOOD, STRONG, HEALTHY, SEXUAL HABITS WITH A CONSENTING PARTNER.
50 SHADES OF GREY = MORALLY WITHOUT, UNHEALTHY, MYSOGINISTIC, ABUSE, OF BOTH POWER AND RESPONSIBILITY.
Don’t hate or think that the BDSM community is all bad because you read that book, and conversely don’t treat a women or man like that in a relationship, if that is the only example of a BDSM relationship.
This is the knot your knot could look like if you bothered to ask actual BDSM players, or hell, even their YouTube channels, before making a movie supposedly about BDSM. I’m not a rope top and I did that one-handed.
I’m on a horse.
The thing where they justify abuse by saying “it’s BDSM, of course it’s sick and wrong” is still a bigger problem though.